We can all think of people who made our day, people who left a mark on our soul, people who made a positive impact on our psyche and lives, people who you like to introduce to people with enthusiasm and people who you just can’t stop talking about with your friends (in a positive way).
What does it take to be one of these people that everyone likes? That everyone wants to know? No it’s not over 1,000 followers on Instagram or someone who spends a lot of money on materialistic things we don’t actually like but feel we should have because you might be able to somehow emulate them and their ‘happiness’.
No, it’s the person who everyone seems to be drawn to and want to hang out with, it’s the person who everyone just seems to click with, the person who people actively want to work with, well here are some of the traits that these people are sure to have –
The liked person is always positive and will build you up and remind you there’s always a way, they have positive reputations and would rather focus on positives than dwell on the negatives.
The deliberate conversationist
The liked person speaks with confidence and assertively, they don’t speak about things that don’t matter to them, they speak deliberately and about things that matter, and the uplifting tone makes you interested in them too.
They don’t seek attention other than when it’s to aid others, to raise attention to important causes. But they also pay attention, they pay attention to everyone they speak to because that person is the most important person to them. They give eye contact with interest and listen.
All good things come to those who wait. The liked person knows that they can hang back until the time is right, they are patient in all manners, with the people they talk to, with the troubles they come up against and with the advantage that they properly time the effectiveness of their words and actions.
Not all things are worth saying
The liked person knows that actions are more powerful than words, bringing down someone else isn’t going to bring them joy and they know that. The liked person knows that they don’t have to engage in the bitching session when their time can be better spent elsewhere.
They give without expecting return
A good deed never goes unnoticed and the liked person knows this well, but also enjoys doing even something small for someone else in need, because they know that if they’re ever in need they’d want the same.
They fail successfully
The liked person knows that in their failures, they can succeed better because they learn the lesson.
To your success.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
Tahar is a bestselling author of “Fail Your Way to Success” and an internationally renowned speaker on leadership, real estate investing, entrepreneurship and productivity. His privately held real estate investment company conducts sales revenues exceeding $1.5 billion a year.
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